Visioning, The Ultimate Life-Changing Energy Creator | 06

podcast Jun 01, 2020

Social pressure 'wrote' a long list of things we are supposed to do with our lives. In my case, even after ticking every single box of that list, my life didn't feel right, something was missing. The things we are supposed to do maybe are not the best option for us, that is why we should focus on the things that make our soul sing. It can be anything, every fulfilling life is unique, but all of them have the same origin: visioning, the ultimate life-changing energy creator. 

In this episode

  • The origin of every significant growth [00:01:00]
  • How does your best life look? [00:03:00]
  • How it started for me [00:04:30]
  • Think of it more like a story [00:06:00]
  • My vision, my strength [00:09:00]
  • You probably beat yourself up enough already [00:12:00]
  • Inspiration from those who believed [00:15:00]
  • Dream big [00:18:00]



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How To Turn Your Nasty Dog-File Into A Cute Little Puppy | 05

podcast May 25, 2020



Every law practice has a file seated on a corner since the beginning of time. It is there, accumulating dust and growing every day. The truth is that if we don't deal with it, this howling dog-file will come and bite us sooner or later. In this episode, I share with you a flawless technique that will help you turn this nasty dog-file into a cute little puppy.  


In this episode

  • My first growling dog file [00:02:10]
  • How does this affect us as lawyers [00:03:00]
  • What about delegating [00:04:00]
  • A new nasty dog file is born [00:05:15]
  • When improvising don't go as planned [00:06:30]
  • My flawless technique in action [00:07:30]
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Why Can Zoom Boost Your Practice Or Destroy It? | 04

podcast May 18, 2020

The lockdowns all over the globe forced tons of people to increase their online business management. Since most people are not allowed to go to the office, Zoom meetings became a commonplace and a useful tool for workers and business owners. But, could this valuable gadget turn against us? Is Zoom meant to boost our practice or destroy it? In this episode, I share with you my top tips to consider when using this two-edged tool.


In this episode

  • Our business changed [00:01:30]
  • Choosing the right place for a Zoom meeting [00:03:00]
  • Meeting in a closet [00:04:00]
  • The art of muting yourself [00:05:00]
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This is How Delegating saved my life | Ep 03

podcast May 10, 2020


Perhaps one of the most challenging things to do as a business owner is to delegate, yet it is vital for the growth of your practice. If you don't enjoy doing something, or you're are not very good at it, you can transfer it to someone with better skills in that area, and you can focus on what you like to do. In this episode, I will tell you how delegating improved my income and saved my life. 


In this episode:

  • My life before delegating [00:02:00]
  • How do you get to look brilliant and organized? [00:03:10]
  • What are the things you can delegate? [00:04:30]
  • What about the extra time you get by delegating? [00:05:45]
  • The benefits of delegating [00:07:30]
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Why Beating Fear Is The Right Thing To Do? | Ep 02

Uncategorized May 03, 2020


It is normal to be afraid of what is happening around the world during this pandemic, but it is not mandatory. Our best option is to focus on what and how we can contribute to our community. We can hide under the blankets and spend the day looking at a black screen, or we can be active and realize that beating the fear is the right thing to do.


In this episode:

  • The emotional roller coaster [00:02:00]
  • An opportunity arises [00:03:30]
  • Be afraid or be expansive [00:04:30]
  • Being mindful of our blessings [00:06:00]
  • Taking care of what is what counts [00:07:00]
  • Viktor Frankl's inspiring life lesson [00:08:00]
  • The opportunities, the options we have [00:09:00]
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How to Make Coronavirus Your Opportunity | Ep 01

podcast Apr 19, 2020


Working hard and getting A's in Law School will guide our hand towards our diploma but, what do we come out knowing about nurturing clients, Marketing, or even using technology to grow our Law Firm? 

In this first episode of the year of Be The Best Divorce Lawyer Podcast I share with you my experiences starting my own business, what I did right and wrong, so you can avoid making the same mistakes. 


In this episode:

  • Why I decided to start this podcast [00:01:00] 
  • I have my diploma, now what? [00:03:30]
  • My ego opened up its Law Firm [00:05:00]
  • How I started adding pressure to myself [00:08:15]
  • Going backwards financially [00:10:20]
  • A crisis is also an opportunity [00:12:00]
  • Sometimes you have to cut loose [00:13:50]
  • How my health was affected by the stress [00:15:30]
  • My life falling apart [00:18:30]
  • The changes I've made to have a better life [00:19:10]
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What a Difference a Year Makes: Strategically Finding Joy After the Big Breakup

your life alignment Oct 18, 2019

Hi there, it’s Val!

Today I want to talk to you about the fact that it’s kind of a special day. I’m filming this on October 11, 2019 and a year ago today, I made the decision to leave my very unhappy marriage. To be clear, it was unhappy for a long time, and when people would say I officially ended it, I was constructively dismissed. 

I was in a really dark place. Not when I finally agreed to pull the plug, but my life was stuck in so many ways for so many years I had financial struggles. I had gained 40 pounds in the previous year. I didn’t spend any time at all in the woods. Maybe 20-40 minutes a week even though it’s a huge part of what I absolutely love to do.

My life was empty. I’d come home from work, binge on Netflix, my teenage daughter and I weren’t really talking. Our home was quiet like a tomb. There was no laughter, fun, ridiculousness (which I love). 

Yet, when I did finally pull the pin, and thought all the pain was...

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How to Stop Worrying About Money Starting Right Now

Uncategorized Oct 04, 2019


Today I want to talk to you about how you end financial stress starting right this second, right this moment without another worry.

How do you do that? 

There's a quote that goes I've had a lot of worries in my life, some of which have actually happened. That's what we do, don't we? We worry worry worry.

I was talking to a friend of mine and she said that in her financial life, she worked her butt off all the time. In her mind, she never seems to be able to get ahead. She says she works (a lot) and yet when she's not working, she's worried about money which really drains her energy. When her energy is drained, she feels like she needs a treat, then goes out to get it and does something that's not in alignment with what she wants to grow to and create in her life.

Using my friend as an example, she loves to travel and it's totally in alignment with what she wants to do and how she wants to experience her life. When she's working, she's saving up for her trips which...

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When Life Has Kicked Your A** - How to Get Over That Empty, Lonely, Sad, Broken Heart, Kind of Feeling

your life alignment Sep 27, 2019

Hey there!

Today let's talk about how you prepare your life when you've had major crap happen. 

Those of you who know me quite well, know that I went through a separation recently. It was a big deal for me. I was constructively dismissed from our marriage. Ultimately I pulled the pin because it was unbearable, but at the same time he left me years ago in his heart and I just couldn't live that way anymore.

I lived a certain life or way of being for 18 years. No matter how much pain we caused eachother, or how hurt we were in the end, or how much we have our own narrative, one thing I can say for sure is that I know when I met my husband and for the first 11 years or so, there's no question that he was my soulmate. I loved him deeply, and there was a profound incredible amazing connection there. 

When I say it was a big deal to separate from my husband, it was a BIG deal. It took 8 years of my relationship being terrible before I could actually take the step to leave (and...

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Seeing Your Relationship with Money as a Relationship You are Committed To

your life alignment Sep 04, 2019

Today I want to talk more abundance. You’ve been hearing me go on about abundance and abundance mindset lately. For me, although I’ve been in the practice of trying to tap into, understand, get, absorb the abundance in which I live, I slip just like the next guy. For sure.

One of the other things is if you look at me from an external 3D world, because I lost a million dollars on a property that I’ve been working to pay off, a lot of people might look at me and go “HOly cow how can she be so abundant because she’s got all that debt?!”

If you think that has scared me in the past, it has. Full on terror about that. No question. Absolutely completely terrified.

ALthough I’ve had this debt I’ve also been wanting to tap into the abundance in which I live and there’s a lot in my life that I am grateful for. I live in a beautiful home (it has a big mortgage now on it thanks to my mistake), I work in a wonderful office with wonderful...

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